Cuckold for this article refers to a couple that allows one partner to have sex with someone else with their permission and for a limited number of encounters with the goal being shared sexual enjoyment from the activity. A cuckold differs from an affair by the fact it is something that has been discussed, agreed, and it is done in the open. Also it differs due to the fact the activity is meant to provide both individuals in the couple some for of sexual enjoyment.

Introduction

For some people they have romantic idea about what their first time will be like and some will go to some length to ensure that their first time is a memorable time. One issue that comes up on occasion is the issue of having a threesome for their first time. This article will examine some opinions in regard to this idea.

Timing

Timing of a threesome is important as it may mean the difference between success, failure, or partial enjoyment. There are a few situations where a threesome may not be appropriate. Such situations include but are not limited to:

Introduction

This author does not recommend trying a role play as a part of your first threesome with someone new. Reason for the recommendation is due to the fact as a threesome communication and trust must develop. Without trust and communication a role play at best is not enjoyable and at worst can be quite dangerous. In any event this article will discuss a few opinions in regard to trying role playing as a part of a threesome.

Cum share, learn, discover and discuss

One potential issue that a couple will face is the issue of allowing one of them to play alone with another. It is important to distinguish playing alone with permission from cheating. Playing alone involves the involvement of the non-participating spouse in agreeing to the limits of the meeting (e.g. boundaries), the number of meetings, and agreeing it can happen. Cheating does not involve the participation of the partner and it is usually occurs due to an underlying issue in the relationship. This publication will examine the issue of allowing your partner to play alone and will offer some opinions in regard to it.

On the surface the desire to be friends first before having a threesome with the third person appears to be a reasonable request. However it is possible that this request may actually hinder the ability to have a threesome. This publication will take explore the topic and provide an few opinions as to why it may not be as good of an idea as it seems

One issue that comes up is what are the options if your searching is not yielding the results that you were hoping. This article will examine this issue and provide some opinions that may work in your situation. As with any suggestion in regard to a threesome the suggestion needs to be evaluated in regard to the situation, risk assessed, and modified to meet the specific needs of that situation. Even with suggestions threesomes are inherently risky and a successful threesome is dependent on the participants to minimize any risk that is present.

The threesome process is divided in to four separate stages: discussion, meeting, threesome, and resolution. Each threesome can go back to a stage if the threesome is moving faster than what is comfortable for all involved or two concurrent stages may overlap (e.g. discussion and meeting). Finally each stage has sub-stages which are discussed as a part of this publication

Preparation is not necessary

Some couples will have a threesome by rushing into it impulsively and not discuss the idea or they will discuss it in the bedroom without discussing it in outside of the bedroom. Without talking about having a threesome along with potential issues, safety issues, potential risks, and boundaries the couple is taking a large risk with their relationship.